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Joanne Stoneman's avatar

I feel if you make a promise to an individual, you should keep it. Including marriage vows. If you don’t feel you can keep the vow, you owe it to the other, to be honest. And tell them before you choose to cheat. No matter where that takes you. I have always said I would do that. IF, I ever would choose to do such a thing, There would never be any surprises that way. And I would expect the same from my spouse or lover. Much better to know, than not know. Or hear it from another source, That’s just my belief.

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Jean Pedigo's avatar

Up to the individuals. I would never pretend to understand what goes on in others' relationships, but as long as they have healthy, agreed upon boundaries - and are transparent and do no harm, then do as you will.

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